How will I know when its time to leave?
Really the time to leave is when you want to and/ or when
the symptoms that brought you into therapy have abated.
However there are times in therapy when the going gets
tough. It’s a natural response to want to flee
uncomfortable insights or fear of uncomfortable insights,
experience shows though that these are usually the most
productive times so it’s important to discuss with
the therapist whether you have a genuine sense of
completion or you are concerned about the turn the therapy
is taking. The exception to this is when as a client you
feel you cannot talk about something. The therapy room is
the one place where you need to be free to talk about
anything. That’s what you pay for. In fact, a major
part of therapy is to help you talk about difficult
subjects. So if you have some discomfort or difficulty with
your therapist, the best way forward is to talk about it
until you reach some form of resolution and understanding.
Of course, you have to make that effort, but if you do and
you get no satisfying response, it might be time to find
another therapist.
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